Friday, 11 November 2011
Seeing the Brothers in Court
Blessed Antonio Rosmini, founder of a Catholic religious order which, like the Irish Christian Brothers, has been tainted with allegations of sexual abuse of children
It's been months since I posted news of further sins against children committed by Christian Brothers. I'd almost accepted that someone in the Vatican had been invoking Blessed Edmund Rice and praying hard for me to shut up or even die.
Yes, for a day or so back in June 2011 I was appalled as I read the story of the paedophile hypocrite and member of the Rosminian Order Fr Kit Cunningham http://blogs.telegraph.co.uk/news/damianthompson/100093079/fr-kit-cunninghams-paedophile-past-heads-should-roll-after-the-rosminian-orders-disgraceful-cover-up/
It was tempting to write to Fr Myers, Provincial of the Rosminian Order in England with my own story of abuse by the Christian Brothers. I'd have enjoyed telling him that he should be comforted by the thought that his Order was not alone in being accused of years of sexual misdemeanours against children.
But somehow those bitter and sarcastic thoughts were short-lived. It was a busy time in the garden. I was preoccupied with trying to overcome the side-effects of an operation for prostate cancer. And I was enjoying getting to know my grandchildren.
I even failed to mention on the Millstones site an email that I received around that time, totally out of the blue, from an ex-pupil at Prior Park Preparatory School, Cricklade, with whom I'd been friendly. I remembered him well, but had hardly thought of him as one who'd had a particularly hard time.
How wrong I was! He hadn't been humiliatingly dressed up in a sailor suit and strapped in front of us like the poor boy I described at http://millstonesblog.blogspot.com/2010/04/cricklade-childrens-daly-terror.html He'd certainly never been made to lie over a vaulting horse while Brother B, witnessed by the whole school, thrashed him on the buttocks for the sin of soiling his pants, as I mention at http://millstonesblog.blogspot.com/2010/09/so-i-didnt-imagine-horrors-of-cricklade.html
Above: Brother A. His eyes are closed, as if in prayer
Yet his experience of the Christian Brothers seems to have affected him even more deeply than me. Harry - not his real name - spent three years at Cricklade from 1954 until he moved on, like me, to Prior Park College, Bath. "I remember the abuse I suffered both violent and sexual," he wrote. "I remember Brother A and in particular Brother B. They, and other Brothers, ruined my life."
Harry told me his story in successive emails over the last six months.
Some years ago he had consulted specialist solicitors - he is a retired solicitor himself - but was advised that there was no action he could take. He'd also got in touch with the Irish Christian Brothers, but all they could offer by way of counselling was a meeting with a Christian Brother in Cheshire, hundreds of miles from his home town.
"I also contacted the Catholic Church, but I found them evasive and slow to deal with me," he explained. "I am now an Anglican, although I did for many years keep up with the Catholic Church."
Yes, keeping up with the Church is something that most 'cradle Catholics' find only natural, given the indoctrination that children are subjected to by priests and parents from an early age.
Prior Park Preparatory School, Cricklade, scene of miseries suffered by many Catholic children at the hands of the Christian Brothers
But back to Cricklade and our schoolboy memories... It turns out that Harry is the third ex-pupil of my acquaintance who experienced the senile gropings of the school's so-called 'Saint.'
"I also remember Brother A," he told me. "I went to Prior Park Preparatory School when I was eight and was very tearful at being separated from my mother. Brother A took me to his bed that night, but I remember nothing after that relative to this incident, although I can recall on later dates Brother A putting his hands down my trousers and fumbling about."
Harry mentioned another incident involving the same Christian Brother which gives a further twist to his character.
"I also recall an occasion when Brother A bent a boy [...] over a chair and struck him with a riding crop interspersing each stroke with prayers. The sound of the strokes were audible throughout the school and he had pronounced weals on his backside."
I have to say that I find this story hard to believe, since I found the venerable Brother to be of the most gentle disposition, however fond he was of groping little boys. Harry concurred with this. "Normally Brother A was kindly, telling stories of having been in India and the incident [...] was out of character."
Yet the riding crop...? It's true that Brother A had charmed my parents, especially my mother, with his tales of horsemanship, so perhaps I got off fairly lightly with just a bit of fondling from the old man.
What has prompted me to come back to the Millstones blog is a recent email from Harry dated 6 November 2011 in which he informed me of a case currently before the High Court in which damages are being sought from the Roman Catholic Church.
"Some years ago," he wrote, "I was advised that if I took proceedings, I would stand no reasonable prospect of success by a firm of solicitors, Panone and Partners, but I think that the position may be different now with the Ryan Report and the Residential Institutions Redress Board (in Ireland). I am told that the solicitor dealing with the case in the High Court is Ms. Tracey Emmott of Emmott Snell & Co."
Harry told me that he was proposing to contact this firm of solicitors with details of our correspondence and of this Millstones blog, and suggesting that I might wish to contact Ms Emmott. He himself would be willing to enter into a Conditional Fee Agreement with the firm, and suspected that there would not be any need for a payment up front in order to seek advice. He had sought advice from his own Anglican church and had found a more helpful response than from the Catholic authorities that he'd consulted. "The local Rector is supportive of my pursuing a claim, as he feels that I should be entitled to redress."
Harry is keen to contact other ex-Cricklade pupils who have suffered at the hands of the Christian Brothers, and I would be more than happy to provide his email address if he is willing for me to do this.
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